ohioboy73
Gift PremiumI'm a happily married guy, that is looking for some "fun" online. My wife has a very low sex drive (once every 2-3 months) while I have a higher one (every 1-2 days), so I'm not looking for a hook-up. Just need a place to express my sexuality through erotica. UPDATE: I'm not sure what I'm looking for me now. I'm still happily married; but the no-sex thing is really starting to put a major wedge between us.
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Monday, October 22, 2007, 12:49:28 AM- Been a Long Time ... | ||||||
I was tempted by the love of another, but I'm back to newbienude.com tonight. Have been visiting rude.com a lot over the past couple of months and love their videos but miss writing about stuff and their seems to be more community around here. So I've come back. | ||||||
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Sunday, April 1, 2007, 11:35:35 PM- Ever Okay to Cheat? | ||
I have been having this dilema with myself the past several weeks. A few years back at a conference, I hooked up with this older lady, lots of Tequila and Blackhouse and we ended up spending an evening togther. It was a good time, next morning I hear about her kids and husband. I felt horrible and there was always a distance between us at other conferences. Well I've changed jobs and our new location has put me in the same community as her. She told me that she is now divorced and that her husband came out to her as being gay and they were in a celibate marriage for several years. She swore that I was the first time she'd cheated. Now, it is making me a little awkward. I enjoy being around her, but I am wondering about her intentions. I am not considering cheating -- though -- with a little alcohol, I'm scared that I could be tempted. So is it ever okay to cheat? | ||
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Monday, March 26, 2007, 2:42:57 AM- Fuck | ||||||
The wife just walked away after making me think we were going to have some fun. She shut-th-dog in the room; and slipped back downstairs. Gave me some passionate kisses, then walked away. "That's all I wanted was a kiss." AUGH! | ||||||
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Saturday, March 3, 2007, 7:35:44 PM- What Am I Doing Wrong? | ||
Was listening to the local radio station and they had a "House of Love" segment that featured what a man can do to make his woman want him ... 1. Cook and Clean Dinner - I cook 90 percent of our meals and usually clean up. 2. Give an Innocent Massage - I try and usually do this about once a week. 3. Do chores without her asking - I've stayed up several nights to clean the house so she wouldn't have to do it the next day. Other things like this and I think I was like 9-for-10 on things I do on a routine basis. And I haven't got action in 18 months? Something here makes me feel a little un-appreciated. | ||
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Saturday, March 3, 2007, 7:30:33 PM- I'm lost ... don't know what to do next ... | ||
I've been working on a new job and things are stressful. But, I am really getting frustrated with the sexual issue. We haven't had any type of sexual contact for a year now, and haven't had sex since Labor Day 2005. And she tells me we are going to have a kid by Christmas. Something here doesn't jive. I don't really know what to do or say. Just been really blue and no one to tell it too. So here it goes. | ||
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Monday, January 29, 2007, 1:38:27 PM- I'm sorry ... | ||
Fugly? They might be fake, but fugly? Never! | ||
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Tuesday, November 14, 2006, 3:50:08 AM- Real Red? | ||
I was talking about the beer ... you pervert | ||
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Tuesday, November 14, 2006, 3:46:55 AM- Are You Sure it Wasn't You? | ||
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Tuesday, November 14, 2006, 3:45:14 AM- Hot Gymnasts | ||
We spent parts of the weekend at a gymnastics meet for a bunch of little girls. The litle girls were damn cute and helped me realize how much I want a kid. But it was the gymanstic coaches that were ... wow! Those big athletic thighs and firm asses. Good lord was that nice to see ... and my wife wondered why I didn't mind going. | ||
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Sunday, November 12, 2006, 5:00:25 AM- Horny to Crying | ||
Wow, this is fucked up night. I logged on here horny as hell, got hard as a rock (thanks Mrs. Milf2) and was really getting going. Then my wife walked out of the bedroom and I had to log out of NN quickly. She kissed me good night and took the puppy back on up to bed. I got comfortable again and logged back into NN, but something had changed. My mood went from horny as hell, to very glum. Why? Too much thinking for one thing. But the other side was the realization that it has now been eight months since we've had sex -- and she could care less. Now that isn't fair, she does care. It just doesn't feel like it anymore. She apoligizes on occasion for not "being in the mood." Hell, sometimes I'm not in the mood to do things -- but I still have to do them, or she gets pissed off. But, oh that's right...she gets whatever she wants and I'm stuck holding my penis feeling guilty for wanting sex on occasion. I know that she sometimes talks to her friends about it -- and they are all so impressed with how I handle it. The one even called me a saint, because her husband gets pissed if they go four days -- and they've got two little girls. I'm not a saint, all I want is the occassional satisfaction that I'm desirable. "We're Not In the Mood" is an interesting read at www.nomarriage.com and it includes some interesting stats. - 15-20% of 112 million married Americans have sex less than 10 times in a year ... hell I don't think we've had it 10 times in 3 years - Avlimil, an herbal concoction that promises to help women put sex back into sexless marriage, had sales of 200,000 packages in its first month on the market - Frequency of sex may be a measure of a marriage’s long-term health - Married couples say they have sex 68.5 times a year, or slightly more than once a week, according to a 2002 study by the highly respected National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, and the NORC numbers haven’t changed much over the past 10 years She continued: "But a new breed of marriage therapists take a more action-oriented approach. Regena Thomashauer, a relationship counselor and author of “Mama Gena’s Owner’s and Operator’s Guide to Men,” agrees that scheduling time together is essential. Use the time to have sex, she urges. Michele and Marcelo Sandoval, 40 and 42, respectively, sought help from Thomashauer when they were expecting their first child; now they make two “dates” a week. “We call them dates,” says Marcelo, “but we know it means sex, and we make it a priority.” Author Weiner Davis has a similar strategy: just do it. Don’t wait until you’re in the mood. And view thoughtful gestures, such as letting your spouse sleep in, as foreplay. Chris Paterson, 31, and his wife, Tara, 29, say Weiner Davis has helped them. Early in their marriage, they had sex nearly every night. But after she gave birth to their first child, Tara lost interest. Their nightly sessions became infrequent events. In addition to raising the kids, now 6 and 2, both Tara and Chris run their own businesses—she has a Web site called justformom.com and he’s a general contractor. Tara says she’s just exhausted. Chris also shoulders part of the blame. “I haven’t always been the most romantic, getting-her-in-the-mood kind of individual,” he says. Since talking to Weiner Davis and reading her book, Chris and Tara say they now have sex almost once a week, when they “try really hard.” Interesting stats and stories -- but I don't see how they will help my situation. The story says that usually its because someones angry -- and I'm trying to figure out what the hell I ever did to deserve this. (Even my MOTHER-IN-LAW has told her that we need to do it!) I think I'm a pretty good husband. - Flowers without asking - I routinely will stay up and clean the house when it needs to happen - We split the meal prep - I say please and thank you - Put the toilet seat down. I took care of her last week when she was sick and I got a "thanks" and a card. Okay, that was nice of her...but I guess I should just be happy with it. Are you in a sexless marriage? Take a test at ABC ([url]http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/story?id=125095&page=1[/url] but don't expect any answers because the chart is gone. Of course if you have to take the test to know, then I'd say you are. Oh well, guess I'll just "conviently" fall asleep on the couch tonight -- so I don't have to feel totally fat and worthless. | ||
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